An answer to your questions is that you can begin by reading the sections of Article 18 of the Surrogate's Court Procedure Act that apply. Then you can determine whether you can handle your claim pro se or hire an attorney to represent you. - Ian W. MacLean
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Mr. Maclean gives you good advice. Section 1803(2) of the Surrogate's Court Procedure Act provides: 2. The notice of claim required by this section shall be presented by delivering a copy thereof to a fiduciary personally or by certified mail return receipt requested addressed to the fiduciary at the place of residence stated in the designation required by 708 or if a notice has
been published pursuant to 1801, at the place specified therein or upon the clerk of the court pursuant to the designation required under 708 whenever the fiduciary cannot be found or served within the state after due diligence."
Good luck to you.
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I would serve on fiduciary and the surrogate's court as there is no penalty for a belts and suspenders approach.
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