My husband of 11 years (now ex) left me for another woman. I didnt want to seperate our 2 kids so i agreed to give him custody and pay support. His girlfriend is a girl who was secretly in his life 4 a while and i accept my breakup. But recently as i send my son text messages, she would reply to them. When id send my ex husband text messages about our kids, she would reply as well. She calls me out of my name, mentioning things ive told my ex husband in confidance when we were married. I dont know what shes trying to do but she filed a TPO against me stating that she fears for her life. Im not a violent person and its only to keep me from my kids. I filed one as well since she has also threatened me. She bad mouth me to my kids, dent my car, still no arrest from the police. help!