Have the Clerk of the Court set the case on the assigned Judge's calendar for final decree. If she does not show up, and she was properly served, then you will get the divorce and the Judge will award you everything you asked for that he is able to award without her appearance. Setting the case before the Judge will also bring to light any problems with the papers you filed and the service of the wife that might be holding up things as well so you can fix them and move forward.