I married her to find out that she was not in the same mind set. Never the less she rain up bills and also taxes. I have paid a lot of back taxes but there is still 30K outstanding from 2008 (IRS) - CA-FTB is paid. I need to resolve this divorce and get her to accept half of what is due. She makes 100K as a nurse and I make 130K. I have three kids full time from a previous marriage that I take care. All I want is her to pay her share of taxes. The IRS went after me so I have paid the majority of to date at this time so the net balance due would be her paying approximately 80%. I have a spreadsheet for the entire amount of liability. My only wish/demand is she pay her share of 50% of the total and sign off on the divorce. She has no kids; lives with friends; works at a near by hospital.