In March/April, I had a sexual relationship with a coworker. At the end of May someone anonymously informed HR. The HR Director said that because we do not have a direct reporting relationship there was not a problem with us seeing each other but still asked us if we were having a relationship. Because it was over, we both said no. In July, a new general manager started and became good friends with my coworker. They go golfing together, have arranged golfing with all of the male employees and have discussed (at work) having a guys night out to a strip club with all of the male employees. In October, my relationship with my coworker became sexual again for a short time. This ended badly and my coworker informed our manager. On 12/20/07, our manager said that he would review everything but we would probably both be fired for lying. However, on 12/21/07, only I was fired. He looked at private emails (not on company time or company email) I had written to my coworker, but when I offered to show emails he had sent me, my manager said the decision had been made. He didn't even show me the emails that my coworker had given him. I am not even sure they were actually from me!
This was my first relationship with a coworker in the almost 4 years I have worked there. However, in the year my coworker has worked there, I am his second (although there have been rumors of others). He had a relationship with a subordinate of his and he is currently dating her. She is no longer working there but was there for the first three months of their relationship.
There are no women in any senior management within this company. There was one female director, but when the company president started he fired her. It is a boy's club and I think I was unfairly dismissed because of my gender.