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Debt collectors are harassing my family with threats and they know how to contact me what can i do to stop this

Tallahassee, FL |

there was a loan taken out in my name over the internet. when the company contacted me i explained that i had some identity theft and i am working to get it cleared up i was advised to pay this dept and try to settle with the court later. they have contacted several members of my family threatening to have me arrested and discussing the the matter with my family. i want the calls to my family to stop and i need to know how to proceed with this matter

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You should immediately call an experienced consumer rights attorney. I suggest that you look for one at

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Under the Fair Debt Collection Practices Act, this is not allowed.

Not if the collector knows your name and telephone number and could have contacted you directly. When contacting your family members including minors or neighbors to find out how to locate you, the collector:

Cannot tell others you owe a debt or discuss details of the account.
Must identity himself, (by name, but not as a debt collector).
Must identity the name of the collection agency only if asked.
Can only contact the party once unless the collection agency has reason to believe the person has new information.
Cannot leave information about a debt on a third party's answering machine or voice mail service.
Contacts with a spouse, the parent of a minor, a guardian, co-signer, executor, or administrator are considered the same as contacts with the debtor under the FDCPA.

If the situation results in a court judgment being entered against you, the FDCPA allows a collector to contact third parties "as reasonably necessary to effectuate a postjudgment judicial remedy." However, according to the FTC , a debt collector may not send a copy of the judgment to your employer, except as part of a formal service of papers to achieve a garnishment or other remedy.

As far as threats, A collection agency can file a lawsuit to collect a debt. However, among the many things a collector is not allowed to do is threaten you with a lawsuit just to get you to pay the debt. Examples of threats and deceptive practices prohibited by the FDCPA are when the collector:

Says it will garnish your wages or sell your property if it is not legal to do that.
Says it will sue you, if the collector doesn't intend to sue.
Is not truthful about the amount of money you owe.
Says you will be arrested if you don't pay the debt.
Threatens you with violence.

I would recommend you contact an attorney in your area that handles collection matters to possibly assist you.

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I agree with my colleagues. You should consult with an attorney who handles FDCPA issues. And keep a detailed log of all the attempts to contact you and your family (name, company, phone number, etc). Go meet with an attorney to discuss your issues. Good Luck!

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I agree with the above responses; however, there are increasing numbers of these collections that are absolute scams. The first thing I would do to investigate is to google search the number that is calling you.

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