Final hearing date is 1 1/2 weeks away. Is it pertinent I get an agreeing in writing from the opposing party before requesting for continuance?
Also, do I need to have an affidavit stating why if the motion already states that I need more time to seek counsel?
Mediation was a failure due to her wanting everything her way. To be removed from the situation I have agreed to the amount of child support she wants and custody schedule that keep my access as limited as possible as she desires. However, I would like the right to first refusal added on my part. Her and her attorney still haven't agreed to anything. Is right to first refusal far fetched as a father with already limited acess to his child?
Divorce / Separation Lawyer
Call the court coordinator, get some dates to reschedule and give them to opposing counsel. Then get a rule 11 in writing from her and file it.
If you've got a motion for continuance in, generally you don't need an affidavit of why you need more counsel. Affidavits are only for hearings that don't require testimony.
If she's refused to agree to anything, you can still withdraw your child support and custody schedule and get in one you like more. A right of first refusal isn't far fetched in normal circumstances but if your access is limited to less than standard visitation, it might be pushing things a bit.
I would strongly recommend calling up a local family law attorney for help and consultation.
Patent Application Attorney
Generally, a motion for continuance requires an agreement with the opposition, OR an affidavit supporting the statements you make in your motion. Get your attorney soon.
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Family Law Attorney
You need to hire an attorney as soon as possible and let them deal with getting the continuance. Depending on how long the case has been pending a judge may not grant your request for continuance unless you have an agreement from the other side (and some judges do not even care if there is an agreement or not).