I was reading some info about what questions can be asked of me by their attorney to find out about my assets. A couple of questions did not sound right: 1. Can I borrow against my retirement accounts? (I thought retirement account were untouchable) 2. Can I borrow against my credit cards? (Can they actually force me to borrow against a good credit card that I have) 3. Do I expect and inheritance anytime in the future? (Can they put a lien on and inheritance? Here is another question: If my wife and I are not working and my son/girlfriend and daughter/husband (neither pay rent) live with my wife and I and they pay some of the bills and my mother pays the rest of the bills or give me money for bills...what can they do to collect from anyone other than me?