Can I use certified mail to serve California divorce papers if my wife refuses to sign the Acknowledgment Receipt? Will that suffice as Proof of Service in court? I doubt that she would sign the Acknowledgment Receipt if I mail it to her or use a friend to give it to her. That's why I thought of using certified mail. Will the CA court accept that as Proof of Service?
Sometimes people who are served don't accept the papers they're handed. That's ok, you can leave them at their feet if they think not touching them means they're not served. They still are.
You can't use mail, you must use personal service, and you can't do it yourself, some other adult not a party to the suit has to do it. Hire a pro, it's worth getting the service and proof of service done right if you think your STBXW is resistant.
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The court will ONLY accept a signed Notice and Acknowledgment of Receipt OR a Proof of Personal Service (preferred). This has to be filled out by an adult, aged 18 or older, who is not a party to the action. Just pay a process server to do it; you will be glad you did.
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The process by mail requires that she sign the Notice of Acknowledgment and Receipt in order to be proper (accepted by the court). Otherwise, your only option is to have her personally served (you cannot do it). You will have to either hire a process server, or have someone else qualified to serve her handle that. You should note, however, that if you do incur costs in having her served because she refused to accept service by mail, the court has the option of ordering her to reimburse you those costs.
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