Can you make changes to a pro se divorce when before the judge?

My case goes before a judge tomorrow morning. My husband wants to change the amount f child support, the date he starts paying, and who gets which vehicle. He threatened me if I do not make the changes he will take recourse.

Columbus, GA -

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Glen Edward Ashman

Glen Edward Ashman

Divorce / Separation Lawyer - East Point, GA
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You are WAY over your head. Try to get yopur case reset and get a lawyer. I cannot stress how votal this is. I gather you think you have a settlement. No settlement is final unless a judge okays it. And if you did one pro se, it is rather unlikely you even covered things as well as a lawyer could. You really need a lawyer with you.

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Joshua David Earwood

Joshua David Earwood

Family Law Attorney - Cartersville, GA
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I agree with Glen. You need a lawyer ASAP. It will be much more difficult, or perhaps even impossible, to sort out problems with your divorce once it becomes final.

R. S. Poydasheff Jr.

R. S. Poydasheff Jr.

Divorce / Separation Lawyer - Columbus, GA
Answered

Child Support is set by statute and is based on the income of both parties with allowance for deviations. I agree with the rest when they say get a lawyer, at least for an initial consultation . But yes, typically you can agree before the judge signs the order, but not after.

Mary Elizabeth Yarbrough

Mary Elizabeth Yarbrough

Divorce / Separation Lawyer - Memphis, TN
Answered

You need to go to court tomorrow and tell the judge that you need to hire an attorney and that you do not understand your rights. If you have already signed an agreement, it may or may not be enforceable, but it may be that you would agree to make certain changes if there are also changes that you may wish to make. In any case, you need to review your settlement with an attorney, evaluate whether your husband has a legal basis to repudiate any agreement you may have, and what your options are. Good luck.

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