I was told I could have zero contact with my wife, the plaintiff, who filed ex parte restraining order against me. She had her friend email me explaining that my wife wanted me to know she is shutting off my cell phone service in 2 days. We have yet to have a hearing and I do not want to got to back to jail. Can I respond? Can she shut my cell phone service off without consent during this pre trial period? is she in violation of the restraining order?