Can one partner take away my paying job?

She can force you out of the game, but at the end of the day she is going to have to give you fair value for your interest in the business. If she doesn't want to play the game with you anymore, so to speak, you can take your ball and go home.

I suggest you consult a lawyer who holds New York licensure to listen to the facts of your circumstance in detail and to advise you on your rights in respect of the dissolution of the partnership. (I assume it's a partnership because you call her your "partner." If it's a corporation, you are a minority shareholder.) Whether it's a partnership or a corporation, the law gives you all kinds of rights, and a New York-licensed lawyer will need to tell you about them.

I am not that lawyer because I'm not licensed in New York. What I said above isn't legal advice, it's general information based on general principles of law which is intended to educate.

Good luck.