Can my sons father force me to let our 12 year old son fly alone?

Asked over 1 year ago - Saint Charles, MO

My son's father is responsible for 100% of the transportation. He usually drives to pick him up, doesn't get him on his three day weekends and is never here when he says he will be. It is an 8 hour drive, he blames being late on his three children that he always brings with to pick up our son even though they could stay home with his wife. He wants me to drop our son off at the airport and expects me to trust that he will be there on time to pick him up. If I refuse to take him to his flight that he already paid for can I be held in contempt even though I told him weeks ago in a text that I will not let him fly alone?

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  1. Howard M Lewis


    Contributor Level 20


    Lawyer agrees


    Answered . There is no easy answer to this question. There are many factors to consider, such as the maturity level of the child, whether the flight is direct, the size of the airport your son would be traveling to, etc. If there is a genuine safety concern, you would have a defense to a charge for contempt. That being said, there is no guarantee that the judge will agree with your safety concerns. I would suggest contacting local counsel for further advice.

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  2. Benicia A. Baker-Livorsi

    Contributor Level 8

    Answered . Missouri family courts have broad discretion to enter travel orders involving children. Given your circumstances, you have arguments to modify the custody schedule to reflect the more realistic situations Father has created by his conduct. It is important to consult with an experienced family law attorney about your options.

    Benicia Baker-Livorsi
    The Family Law Group, LLC
    6 Westbury Drive
    St. Charles, MO 63301
    636-947-8181 (telephone)

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