Can my mother-in-law charge me for rent? Does she have the right to start charging me for past & future months?

I live in Colorado. My wife and I are currently having marital problems. We live with my mother-in-law, we don't pay rent, just help out with some of the groceries & utilities. There was NO verbal agreement or paperwork signed. Just recently, she has decided that she wants to charge me rent or i have a choice of moving out, due to my marital problems.

Centennial, CO -

Attorney Answers (5)

Stephen Clark Harkess

Stephen Clark Harkess

Family Law Attorney - Wheat Ridge, CO
Answered

Of course the owner or lease holder of the house can ask you to move out or pay rent.

No, she cannot force you to pay for past rent since you were there with permission without a promise to pay. However, if she no longer wants to be so generous, you need to move. It's not your house.

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Christopher Daniel Leroi

Christopher Daniel Leroi

Divorce / Separation Lawyer - Greenwood Village, CO
Answered

Yes, she can ask that you pay rent and have the rent payments start now. I would get something in writing from her. No, she can not charge you for any past months, because she allowed you to stay there rent-free for those months and they were a gift.

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David Littman

David Littman

Adoption Lawyer - Denver, CO
Answered

Perhaps if you and your wife were to consider marital counseling and attempt to resolve the marital problems, your mother in law would reconsider. It sounds like she has had enough of the strife and is exerting herself in the manner in which she can do so. You cannot force her to accept you as a non-paying tenant in her home. If you do stay, try to get an agreement in writing.

April D Jones

April D Jones

Family Law Attorney - Greenwood Village, CO
Answered

Yes she can ask you to pay future rent or move out. However she is not entitled to past rent since that was not required in the past.

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Diana L. Powell

Diana L. Powell

Family Law Attorney - Littleton, CO
Answered

Your wife’s mother is your landlord and you are her holdover tenant. She can evict you, but she has little chance to enforce claims for past rent, without either (1) proof that there was a written rental agreement or (2) proof you previously paid rent and expenses to document a verbal agreement. On the other hand, she still gets to evict you. Resisting eviction is expensive, and offers only a short delay for the inevitable.
If things don't settle down, it is time to leave your mother-in-law's home. If your wife does not also move out, your marriage may be over. While a divorce involving no children and few assets can be done without an attorney, your use of an attorney will avoid serious pitfalls. If you do have children or assets, you do need an attorney, even before you move out. With both children and assets, your departure from the home without temporary resolutions can prejudice the situation against you.

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