Provided the person who serves you is not a Petitioner or Respondent in the action and they are 18, then you may be properly served. Also, there is a requirement that the service must take place generally 8 days before the hearing.
Morghan Leia Richardson, Esq.
Richardson Legal PLLC
31-08 Broadway, Suite 204
Astoria, New York 11106
Anyone over the age of 18 and NOT a party to the action may serve papers.
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