Can I use a trademark/ name of a brand if I'm using their product in my product?

As noted, nope. In fact, I think you will create a dispute with the other company if you even include the name of their product in your product's ingredient list. That use of their trademark may, or may not, be lawful but the other company can, and likely would, make your life miserable while the issue is being sorted -- which I would do were I counsel for the other company.

No way. You can list the product in the recipe/ingredient list, as long as you take care to disaffiliate your company from the rightsholder of this famous product and give them credit for owning the trademark, but if you use their trademark in your advertising, consumers would likely be confused about the source of your product, and that constitutes infringement.

Essentially you can't do anything that would make their customers mistakenly believe that your chocolate product is made by them, and by the same token, you can't make your customers mistakenly believe that your product is affilated with the famous Pieces company's product. It's "brand fraud" on the consumers, and it would give them grounds for a lawsuit.

You can ask them for permission, but I'd be very surprised if they allowed it. Such a use would not ony infringe and wrongfully trade on their mark, but it would "dilute" their mark by using it with as product not their own.

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