My three year old son's dad and I have been splitting custody, without a court ordered parenting plan. I just found out that my fiancee who is in the military, gets leave for Christmas this year. My son's dad told me that I cannot take him home to Florida with us and my other son? Can I take him without his fathers permission providing I provide him with all travel information and contact information while we are there? I don't want his objections to tear my family apart this Christmas.