Can I take my nephews to a child psychologist without legal woes from custodial parent, their mom, my ex sister in law?

Asked over 1 year ago - Charlottesville, VA

I have two nephews that live the majority of the time with their mom.My brother has them every other weekend. One is 6, the other 3. Both have told my family things that concern us greatly and we have noticed the 6 year old is withdrawn and often lacks affect. His parents divorced last year. His mother moved in another man a week after my brother moved out, mom doesn't work but sends them to babysitter, home is in foreclosure. My ex sister in law is a sociopath that did and may still have drug prob & my brother is an alcoholic. I think kids need professional help to get out what is really going on. If I have my brother's permission, can I legally take the kids to speak with a psychologist without fearing legal ramifications from mom? The kids have never been priority to either & need help!

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We have called social services & law enforcement before. I have copies of police reports that state the kids were assaulted by her live in but she lets him stay. She has been arrested for obstruction of justice. My brother was in jail for drug possession. The kids have told us stories of abuse at the hands of mom and her boyfriend. She does nothing to care for them financially. I am deeply concerned that they are damaged psychologically by the goings on and I believe that mom tells them to lie about things. They have as much as said so. My ex sister in law is the very definition of a sociopath. My brother is an alcoholic. Neither parent wants to admit to their problems and neither have made their children a priority.

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  1. James Donald Garrett

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    Answered . The parents of the children have the sole duty and authority (outside of a court order to the contrary or an emergency) to provide medical care for their children. A doctor is not going to provide treatment without one of their consent. If your brother (I am assuming the children's father) schedules the medical care because he deems them appropriate, then there is no legal remedy for the mother against you. You would simply be the one transporting them to the appointments authorized by their father.

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  2. Deborah Ann Johnson Wilson

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    Answered . The purpose of this site is to offer general information and NOT legal advice. No lawyer can give legal advice without hearing all of the facts. Based upon the limited information you have provided the immediate answer to your question is no, absent a power of attorney, court order or written authorization signed by both parents. If the parents share joint legal custody, most professionals will not treat the childern without the consent of the other parent. By law, if the parents share joint legal custody, each parent must confer and consult with the other before making any major decisions. If the father seeks treatment and the mother is withholding consent contrary to the best interest of the children, based upon the facts, this may constitute a material change in circumstances. If so, it may warrant a possible change in the exiting order. In order to protect the well-being of the children, your brother should consult with an experienced family lawyer in the area. If the interest of the children is being compromised, the court can get involved, once a motion is filed with the court. Best of luck to your family~

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