I'm currently on parole with a full time good job, i have paid my child support on time every 2 weeks for the last 7 years. she has contacted my p.o., child support and the judge saying i'm in arrears and i contacted child support and they state my record is EXCELLENT! She has contacted my employment trying to get me fired I have proof. We been divorced for 9 years and she keeps trying to cause problems, she has tried to have my fiance arressted 3 times already for stupid things (trespassing twice/phone harassment), this is getting old and stressful.
Divorce / Separation Lawyer
You should contact an attorney in your area who practices in the area of family law. He or she could be able to get a civil protection order against her.
Also, said attorney could also try sending your ex-wife a cease-and-desist letter to let her know that if she doesn't knock her harassment off, that you may be able to sue her for slander.
Your situation is not rare; I've dealt with a number of clients who have vindictive former girlfriends and wives.
Also, you should document everything. Save pictures, emails, text messages, Facebook messages, etc, etc. Create a log and record incidents (i.e., date, time, description of what happened, witnesses to it, etc). The more detail, the better.
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Personal Injury Lawyer
I wound get a restraining order against her based o this harassment, and if she violates her then she can be arrested. If you had an attorney for your divorce I would contact him/her.
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Personal Injury Lawyer
I agree with Attorney McCormick. Keep detailed records of her harassment. What she said, when she called or how she harassed you or your fiance. This will support your claim for a restraining order. It seems you have already explained the situation to child support, your employer and probation officer but if you haven't warn them about her so there is no surprises. Good Luck.
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