I have $45,000 in unsecured debt on a credit card that is killing me. I have other debt but this large one is the one I'm worried about and if not for that one, I'd be fine. Bankruptcy is not an option in my situation but creditor doesn't know that. Before I waste my time with a debt settlement company, can't I just negotiate with the credit card company myself? I can get a gift of around $7,000 to pay it off. I've heard 10 cents on the dollar is good, but is it worth me trying that?