Can I get social security information on the wereabouts of my wife who has abandonment me from s.s. admin.?

The Social Security Administration is not going to tell you where someone else is.

If you are trying to serve the documents for a dissolution of marriage, check with your attorney about substitute service (which may include asking the court to allow you to publish the summons in a local newspaper with the required distribution). The court likely will allow you to do substitute service when you can show the court that you have diligently tried to locate the other person but cannot.