Can i get married if my girl has an order of protection against me?

Asked almost 3 years ago - Bronx, NY

My girl and i got into an argument, and i was arrested for putting my hands around her neck.. I was bailed out and an order of protection was filled against me. Now we want to get married.

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  1. Richard C. Southard


    Contributor Level 19


    Lawyer agrees

    Answered . It depends on the type of the order of protection. There are two types. The first is a full stay away order: prohibiting all contact between you. The second is a limited order of protection which states you cannot assault, threaten, harass, etc.. If the OOP in your case is a full order then you would be committing a crime with any contact, even if your girl is permitting it. Remember it is the judge who is ordering you to stay away NOT your girl.

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  2. Hayley R. Greenberg

    Contributor Level 16

    Answered . I am sorry to hear about your situation. You need to get the TOP dropped first so you don't have any more problems.

    I would be happy to speak with you about your case and help answer your questions. If you are interested, feel free to call. Additionally, we offer free consultations on the phone so you do not even have to leave your home to get help.

    I wish you the best of luck.

    Please remember that I do not normally monitor these questions after I have posted a reply.

    Hayley Greenberg
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  3. Seth A. Blum

    Contributor Level 15

    Answered . I strongly recommend that she lift the order of protection first. Otherwise, if the fact that you are near her comes to the attention of the police, you would be arrested, whether she wants it to happen or not. Say you are in a car with her and someone rearends you. When to police come to investigate, you will be arrested.

    Spending time with her before she gets the order for arrest lifted is a BAD idea.

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