My daughter is willing to sign over guardianship of my grandson to me, but the father will not. The father's green card was taken from him and resides in the US under a work permit. The father is mentally and abusive to his son and did not start paying child support until the court ordered him to, about 4 years ago. He has lied on his documents that his son lives with him, which he does not. It is a matter of record he pays child support to the court. The father is looking to have his son live with him in order to obtain a green card and remain in the US. When his son visits him there is no supervision, he is poorly fed and left to fend for himself while the father works and leaves his son with his sister who is illegally in the US. I can provide a better life for my grandson.
Family Law Attorney
You would have to go to court and get a court order. You need to speak to a family law attorney to see if you have sufficient grounds to do so. You may also wish to speak to an immigration attorney, because I believe that the father is under a misapprehension that having his son live with him will qualify him for a green card. I do some immigration law, and I am not aware of any basis for adjustment predicated on having a minor US citizen child living with you.
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Divorce / Separation Lawyer
Consult with an exoerienced family law attorney to help you. You will need to show that the father is not qualified to have custody and you are a resource. The fsther being untruthful is helpful. Write up a history of the. Father and the relationship with the child which will be useful to your lawyer.
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If the boy is a US citizen ... this is not an immigration question and you should consult a family law attorney..
If the boy is not a US citizen, you should consult an immigration attorney immediately.
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Divorce / Separation Lawyer
More details are needed to adequately assess your situation - for instance whether the child already resides with you and if so, for how long. You ultimately would need to prove that the father has either legally abandoned the child or persistently neglected him. I'd also advise the carrot-and-stick approach - advise the mother to file a violation case against him and look to cut a deal on that case if he agrees to custody/guardianship to you. In any event, you should schedule a consultation with a NYC Child Custody attorney for a full assessment.
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