Can I ask for joint custody at our final divorce hearing even though he was awarded temporary custody at the first hearing?

Asked almost 3 years ago - Chatsworth, GA

was married for 9 yrs,our son is 7.ex was mentally &verbally abusive to me in front of our son.became physical,kicked me out w/ nothing took my car away. I am disabled, was in bad car wreck 4 years ago but draw disability.moved into 1room apt that I felt was unsafe for my son to be at but was all I could afford at the time. SO I HAD to let my son stay with him. He filed for divorce and we went to the temporary hearing in Dec.I agreed to supervised visitation at my mom's house every other weekend.Now circumstances have changed,I rented a 3bd 2th clean nice home for us and I want to get joint custody but my ex refuses to talk to me,tells everybody I just left our son and making me look awful when it was ALL him.He has a job,$ and lawyer.He wants it to stay the same but my son even wants me?

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I don't have $ for a lawyer and he refused to go to mediation. We both have raised our son but I was the one who always took care of him. My ex is a total control freak and IMPOSSIBLE so I don't know whats gonna happen. I have no criminal history, can pass a drug test, suitable loving home but he still thinks HE is gonna get full custody. What CAN I DO???? And he is keeping the house, car everything!

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    Answered . The Court is not bound by the temporary Order. The Judge will look at all the relevant evidence and make a determination regarding custody that is grounded in what he or she finds to be in your child's best interest. If you want joint physical and legal custody (the former involves where the child resides / parenting time and the latter involves decision making for the child), then you will have to demonstrate to the Court that joint custody is in your child's best interest. If you cannot afford to retain counsel, you might try calling your local Bar Association. I do not see a Chatsworth or Murray County Bar Association on the web, but if you call the Consumer Assistance Program at the Georgia Bar Association, they may be able to direct you. Their number is (404) 527-8759.

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    Answered . The short answer to your question is that anything that happens at the temporary hearing (including custody) can be changed the final hearing. However based upon the facts that you state in your question, I strongly advise you get an attorney to represent you in your case. The established pattern of supervised visitation will undoubtedly be an issue in your final hearing. However, if circumstances had changed, a court has the authority to incorporate a new custody arrangement in the final order. However, you absolutely need to get a lawyer to represent you. Custody issues are too important to try to handle on your own.

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    Answered . I am going to be very blunt. If you actually want to seek custody, you need a lawyer. You needed one at the beginning of the case. Waiting until now was an enormous mistake. It matters.

    Whether you seel counsel via a local bar pro bono project, Georgia Legal Services or private counsel, spend TODAY getting counsel. Do NOT wait.

    This is the one time in your life, if fundsare short,that you max credit cards, call every friend and family member you have to pitch in, and even sell things to raise money. You need to know that.

    You have lost invaluable time. Good luck.

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Divorce is the process of formally ending a marriage. Divorces may be jointly agreed upon, resolved by negotiation, or decided in court.

Child custody

Child custody involves decisions about who will be responsible for a child, including parental rights, for both married and unmarried parents, and adoptions.

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