My daughter is receiving child support , however he was not always sending . He is in arrears for over $ 5000 . 00 . We presently went to court for contempt where payment was not made for two months . His employer withheld the money , however kept it because he had taking an advance before quitting his job . He is trying to get his arrears dropped , because during this course he has given her money for various activities . Can he use his receipts for the western unions that he has sent HER not domestic relations for spending money . I live in pa in Lackawanna county . Please he has a very good lawyer and I cannot afford one . I have full custody of our daughter he has supervised visits , PFA is in place . thank you .