Yes ... but settlement may be the better way to go here; because even if she files by herself, your income must be included in the calculations regarding whether she qualifies for Chapter 7.
If the issuing bank is well-known, it's probably unlikely that they would renege on your settlement agreement. But you could sent the settlement check certified, along with a note laying out the settlement and your understanding that depositing the check constitutes acceptance. Don't forget to print out this webpage just in case.
I'm not sure I fully understand your question. If you are asking whether you can file BK and discharge this debt that you are talking about agreeing to pay (I assume in a divorce case?), the answer would be "no." Promises to pay debts of your spouse, such as this, and other similar things that are created as part of a marital dissolution are considered priority debts and are not dischargeable if the obligation was incurred in the course of a divorce or separation agreement or divorce decree or other order of the court. See BK Code Sect. 523(15). Not sure where the recorded conversation and special checking acct. etc. fit into the equation.
This question is a little confusing. It seems as though you have made an agreement to settle your wife's credit card debt - but there are conditions attached? If one of the conditions is to give ANY bank account number, I would advised not to agree to it.
If the creditor already has obtained a court judgment, it may be trying to get a bank account number so it can levy the bank account (in the event that you don't pay up voluntarily).
In any event, if you make a payment to that creditor with a cashier's check or money order, you will not reveal your bank account information.
As far as whether or not YOU can discharge that debt in YOUR own chapter 7 bankruptcy, the answer is: probably not, if it is your wife's debt that she incurred before you were married. It could not be a community debt. On the other hand, if you both filed a joint bankruptcy case, that debt could be included and discharged.
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1. You can file a bankruptcy to discharge credit debt.
2. Don't give them anything without a writing.
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Your instincts are correct to request a written settlement agreement before you pay any settlement. However, more facts are needed about the nature of the debt and your family's financial situation before you pay any money to settle this account. Try to contact a qualified lawyer before you act further.
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