Neighbor that we shared a triplex with has been harassing us for over 1 year. She calls and reports us to the police with made up allegations. After the judge denied us a restraining order because she isn't violent (and she lied under oath), we decided to move to another duplex across and down the street. Now she comes to our house and stands in the street calling us out and accusing my boyfriend of living in her attic (she doesn't have an attic) and watching her sleep. She has also told the other neighbors lies about us. Police know she's crazy but they say its her right to call the police if she suspects a crime has been committed. The neighbors would like to send her a letter asking her to stop her excessive 911 calls and drama. Can we get in trouble for sending this letter?
You may want to renew your efforts to get a restraining order. Although the judge found she previously was "violent", the fact that she now comes to your new home seems to be extremely unusual and would cause fear of an attack. She has not business going to the new location stirring up trouble.
Document, document, document. Everything that this person does, note it and make sure you have witnesses. Video cameras of your home and its perimeter may be something you explore. not only can it provide protection it can be used as evidence against this person if they insist on coming onto your property looking for trouble.
Don't set your video cameras to record things that would otherwise be considered private, like focusing it or in the direction of a neighbor's window.
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I can't see any potential problems so long as threats aren't made. It may, however, do no good or make matters worse.
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Feel free to send the letter, as long as you don't include anything that might be construed as a threat to do her harm. I doubt that sending the letter will do anything.
As the other attorney said, videotape and photograph this woman whenever she does this. Keep good records, including date and time. Then, after you have plenty of evidence, go back in for a restraining order.