Can a mother enroll a child in school without the fathers consent if there is 50/50 custody?

Asked about 5 years ago - Santa Rosa, CA

My ex has enrolled my 4 year old son into a school against my wishes. Also, the school that she enrolled him in is one of the worst schools in the county. I have suggested that he will be more emotionally secure next year when he enters as a 5 year old. At this rate he will be entering high school as a 13 year old, and attending school with an age difference of 13-18. With the California school system in the peril that it is, I believe that he could benefit having another year of maturity. Class sizes are larger, and teachers are being laid off affecting his abitlity to learn. I feel like I have been stripped of my paternal right. Do I have an issue here?

Attorney answers (2)

  1. Richard Forrest Gould-Saltman

    Contributor Level 19

    Answered . Although you say that you and Mom have "50/50 custody" you don't say whether this is under a court order, a written agreement, or just an informal arrangement. If you have a court order or judgment about custody, you need to review the part that describes LEGAL custody, and which says who gets to make what sorts of decision about the child. (That's what LEGAL custody is about: decision-making; PHYSICAL custody is who the child spends time with, where, and when).

    If the judgment says you and Mom have joint legal custody, AND it says she is not permitted to start school enrollment without your agreement, then you can "un-enroll" your son. You should review the court order about custody with an experienced family law attorney to be clear on your rights and remedies.

  2. Jonathan H Levy

    Contributor Level 20

    Answered . I agree with my colleague, unless your custody order specifically gives you the right to have some say over educational matters, you may not have a leg to stand on. Making blanket claims that enrolling a child in the California school system is a peril will likely not resonate with a Judge.

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