My wife and I are fighting constantly. We have a 2 year old. We had issues several months ago and she asked me to leave. I tried to see our child while I was moved out, but she would not let me see my child until I returned home a couple of weeks later. My wife has previously been divorced with 2 kids from the prior marriage. The father only gets them every other weekend. She keeps our child with her during the day. I work a full time job that has busier seasonal hours a couple of times a year. Our child is very attached to me and prefers me when I am home. What are my chances of receiving 50/50 custody or something close to 50/50? Is there anything that I can do to help ensure that I receive more visitation?
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There are two aspects of custody - legal (which deals with decisionmaking) where joint is common, and physical (dealing with where the child is). With physical custody, true 50-50 custody is hard to accomplish (it is done occasionally), because a child loses the stability of knowing which home is home in some cases and because school tends to make splitting up school weeks impracticable in many cases. However, even if that prevents exact 50-50, many visitation plans have far more than just every other weekend - such as holidays, extended time in the summer, often a weekday evening, etc. Sit down with a lawyer, share all the facts of your case, and see what the lawyer feels will be possible in your case.
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