I went through a sticky divorce that went on for more than a year.She got house (200k) and everything in it, two cars (12k) later traded for new, 20+k in savings account and 4500/month in alimony and child support plus health benefits. I should get my girls every other weekend but ex lets them make plans w/ friends then makes me the bad person. They are rude, mean and 'Hate me.' I follow the divorce and she doesnt.
I got 40k in CC debt (most hers), 1 car and 6 personal items beside my clothes. She insisted I pay their college and life benefits until youngest is 23. My atty said that was the best deal for me. I have to rent because she ruined my credit by paying the mortgage late and I depleted 2 IRAs to pay her and also my bills. Close to bankrupcy. Can I re-open the divorce?
