You might want to seek a modification of the custody/visitation order limiting visitation or requiring supervision in a visitation center. As part of your application you can ask for restraining order against the boyfriend and/or on behalf of the child.
You have many issues here, including DCF involvement. You must speak with legal counsel who has benefit of all details, records and facts for best advice.
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It is possible to get a 209A abuse prevention order on behalf of a minor but not just for neglect. I have linked below the definitions section of 209A. A 209A can be issued against the boyfriend on behalf of your daughter if he is a "family or household member" of your daughter and engaged in any of the following types of "abuse" with regards to her:
(a) attempting to cause or causing physical harm;
(b) placing another in fear of imminent serious physical harm;
(c) causing another to engage involuntarily in sexual relations by force, threat or duress.
As Atty. Matta suggested, you should consider discussing the matter with a family law attorney in detail to figure out how best to protect your daughter.
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I agree. A restraining order is not meant for the purpose that you stated, & for the reason you stated.
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