Dating is not illegal, but you have to know that it must be extremely closely supervised. The age of consent in Michigan is very clear.....
First Degree Criminal Sexual Conduct - Section 750.520b
(a) A person is guilty of criminal sexual conduct in the first degree if he or she engages in sexual penetration with another person and if any of the following circumstances exists:
That other person is under 13 years of age
That other person is at least 13 but less than 16 years of age and any of the following:
The actor is a member of the same household as the victim
The actor is related to the victim by blood or affinity to the fourth degree
The actor is in a position of authority over the victim and used this authority to coerce the victim to submit
At the age of 12 and at the age of 16 concerning these two minors, the parent adults must realize that neither of these two minors are of sufficient age to know what they really want as regards love, romance etc.....
Check with a lawyer in your locale to discuss more of the details.
Good luck to you.
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