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Can a 16 year old boy choose which parent he can live with in north carolina?

Beckley, WV |

my son is 16 he lives with he's dad in north carolina, i live in west virgnia. he wants to come and stay with me . he has even talked about running away from home, i told him not to do that. he's dad has custody. but if he calls me to come and get him would i get in trouble? would he? i don't know what to do .

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  1. Go back to court with or without an attorney and present your son's views to the court. So long as you are willing, and absent any red flags about the home that you can provide, a court is highly likely to give great weight to the choice of a child who is 16. You might want to consider filing an emergency expedited notice of the legal proceeding. It is important to counsel your son to have patience and trust in your diligent efforts to bring his choices to the attention of the court. It will not serve him over the long-run to be detained as a runaway, and could make his situation worse.

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