Can a 14 year old date a 17 year old in the state of new york

Asked 8 months ago - Brooklyn, NY

I have a family member who is 14 and is dating a 17 year old but she doesnt know if its illegal or not she doesnt want her boyfriend to feel scared and trapped for being with her.

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  1. Eric Edward Rothstein

    Contributor Level 20

    Answered . Date yes.
    Sex no.

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  2. Louis Lawrence Sternberg


    Contributor Level 18

    Answered . "Dating" is not a legally recognized relationship in NY and, as such, there is no law against a 14 year old and a 17 year old dating. If they have sex, it will be statutory rape.

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  3. Jeffrey Bruce Gold


    Contributor Level 19

    Answered . If they have sex, the boyfriend can go to jail for a long time. If they stop short of sex, the boyfriend could still be charged with a lesser crime i.e. contributing to a delinquency of a minor, and still have legal consequences. This gets worse when he turns 18, and she's either 14 or 15.

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