I live in San Diego, I'm taking my 2 month old son and going to Oregon to stay with my mom for a few weeks to sort out the details of seperating from my husband. I want to make sure while I'm gone my husband can't file for temporary custody and actually get it because I'm not here. My mom thought that whoever filed for temporary custody automatically got it until the custody hearing regardless of what was better for the child. I need to know before I leave.