I am divorced, share 50/50 custody of my 2 children, (10 and 12). I have the sole decision what school they attend. My ex moved over 40 miles from my house. The existing school is 13 miles from my house. The high school in my area is terrific, I want my son to attend there. My ex has violated the custody order by moving too far away. I own a house here for the past 4 years, my parents who help with child care live nearby. I do have about a year until this decision is to be made. Do I have to go in front of a judge to do this or can I just enroll him when it is time??