Fly back to Hindustan and come back on your still valid H-4 visa stamp. Might need to prove your spouse maintaining valid H-1B status and your marriage being bona fide at the airport, however, brace yourself!
No, that will not jopardize your ability to use the H-1B category again. The previous or any employer can petition you in the future, for the next approx. 5 years on an new H-1B. You will continue to remain "cap-exempt" for 6 years from the date you got your previous H-1B approved back in 2013, most likely as of October 1st.
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If your question whether your change of status request has been abandoned because you left, not it was not.
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You may be able to leave the U.S. and return on your still-valid H-4 valid. Please see
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Talk to an attorney about how to timeline events so you don't violate any rules.
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