My huband has incurred credit card debt in excess of $190,000 for cash advances to fund his Day Trading. He has also liquidated all his IRA investments. I was recently informed of this after repeated questions which would be answereed with "everything is fine". I work full time with 2 children and am struggling to pay the montly mortgage and household expenses. Needless to say this has taken a toll on our marriage. I am considering divorce but am concerned if I am responsible in any way for his debt.