I do not understand what you are asking. In order to get the green card, your spouse must petition you and you must wait for your priority date to become current. As an intending immigrant, you could be denied entry to the US on a B-1/B-2 visa.
You should retain an experienced immigration lawyer to review all the facts and advise you accordingly.
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You could use your nonimmigrant visa as long as you could prove that you have nonimmigrant intent. Yes, you could choose your own path.
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I think there is some confusion here. As the spouse of a permanent resident, you are not immediately eligible for permanent residence. There are strict numerical quotas which will cause you to wait at least a couple of years after your husband files for you before you are eligible to get your green card. If your husband is eligible to get his citizenship, you would then be immediately eligible for permanent residence. However, if you are found to have entered with "preconceived intent" (entered as a non-immigrant, with intent to remain permanently), then you could have some problems. If you get in, you would want to talk to an experienced immigration attorney for advice on planning the strategy for your case. Good luck.