We have a home equity line of credit for both names, total $100,000, about $60,000 available for use and $40,000 need to pay back. After mediation, we agree to pay back $40,000 Home Equilty Line of Credit by half, but he withdraw $55,000 himself without my permission. How Can I do? I need support my daughter for living and this money is really important for my daughter and me.