If you were married for 12 years and your husband had paid for a divorce but you got back together a week before he went before the judge and you were intimate the night before he appeared before the judge telling the judge he did not know where you were, is the divorce legal? You stayed together for another 8 yeas and then split and you husband wanted to get married again he then filed for a common law divorce, is it legal? He was in the service for the 20 years you were together as his first wife are you intitled to any money? He has been married 2 times since the last divorce