What makes you so confident that your ex-wife "has no proof?" There are many ways to establish the bona fides of a marriage. It is not an exercise of counting pieces of paper. The test is not how long the parties were married, but rather whether the marriage was bona fide at its inception. I can assure you that the government does not turn a "blind eye" as you and your friend seem to believe. Move on with your life.
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Obviously, you are having difficulty seeing beyond your own situation. USCIS does not turn a "blind eye" to possible immigration fraud. Each case is judged on its own merits. Whether the marriage between you and our husband was entered into in good faith is the determination USCIS will attempt to conclude. What will be needed to come to that conclusion with, again, be determined on a case by case basis. The fact that your marriage did not succeed does not mean that it was not entered into in good faith. At this point, it is out of your hands. It's time to let go. Good luck to you.
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You need a consultation with an immigration attorney. I would hesitate making remarks on this fact pattern, except to say as long as you did not commit fraud things are usually open to normalization.
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