grandfather had been dating the mother with continuous breaks ups and falling outs. then one day the son came and took him to there house in a different town, changed his lawyer doctor and POA and surprised my grandfather with a wedding, hes is 88 years old and not in the best of health. my mother sister and wife went to try and talk to him, as he was walking over to them the family then took him by the arm saying dont look walk straight this needs to be done. i have talk to him since and he has stated he dosent know why he got married it was but it was the right thing to do. he also says he dosent know why he changed his POA. he had a stroke and the family didnt take him to the hospital for four days i asked him why, grandfather said we couldnt make time. we need help what can i do??????