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Did you have a question that you forgot to ask? The thing for you to do is go see a criminal defense attorney regarding the heading of your question, about the victim now recanting. Then perhaps go see a civil attorney to discuss what options you might have regarding the rest of what you wrote.
R. Jason de Groot, Esq.,
This rant has appeared here before, and is really far beyond the scope of the general information about the law and legal procedure the generous attorneys who volunteer for Avvo can offer. It is long past time to retain local counsel.
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