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It sounds like you tried to take FMLA to care for one of your parents, and when you turned in the paperwork, you were told you had to provide more information: the diagnosis, date of the diagnosis, and name of the physician who made the diagnosis. And the company's attorney told you the federal government requires this information. You declined to give that information and the employer fired you.
If this is what happened, then I urge you to speak with one or more experienced employment law attorneys with whom you can discuss the details. First, a diagnosis is definitely NOT required for FMLA. In fact, the employer is prohibited from asking for a diagnosis. All the doctor has to certify is that he or she is treating your parent for a "serious medical condition." However, your employer is entitled to know the name of the doctor and the date the serious medical condition started and is expected to end.
Please look at my Avvo guide on the Family and Medical Leave Act, 29 U.S.C. section 2101 et seq. (FMLA): http://www.avvo.com/pages/show?category_id=6&permalink=family-and-medical-leave-fmla-summary-of-key-provisions.
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I hope you can resolve your situation and wish you the best.
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This all sounds a bit odd and I think we need more context. What do you do that your parents medical issues are relevant? Except in very limited circumstances your genetic history should not matter and you may have a GINA issue here. That being said, lying on employment records is also grounds for termination.
Please provide more information about your job and when/how you failed to disclose information.
It sounds like you took FMLA leave to take care of the parent. The employer has a right to a certain amount of information to determine whether the FMLA request is legitimate. That can include certain medical information about the person receiving your care.