My 14 1/2 year old daughter does not want to visit her father we have 70/30 custody. Our paperwork says she is to visit him once a week (5-9pm) and every other weekend. She complains of him being verbally abusive, yelling, controlling, etc. I have had to go pick her up from him after them only being together for less than 10 minutes. Things got heated and physical (grabbing of personal belongings). I have expressed to her that she is to see him and the her relationship with him is important. He has insisted on seeing her and she literally tells me "I will not go, you can not make me go out the door". He says that he is going to invoke his parental rights. I am not alienating him or refusing to share custody. What do I do? When do her emotions and desires matter? Divorce is final.