I was granted a divorce almost 5 yrs. ago due to domestic violence. My exhusband refused to work until recently. We have 3 children, he is remarried with a child. He is $59K behind in support. I haved asked the court to remove alimony just so he would pay child support. It's about the kids not me. I received support through UIB for 2 yrs. It helped alot with the kids. Now, he's working and nothing..In the past, I've written to the courts so he won't get arrested (b/c he told the kids "mommy wants me to go to jail".).I am afraid he will not take care of his children financially just to spite me..what recourse do I have? Or, have I hurt myself because I told the courts I don't want him to get arrested? I have appeared with him at every hearing but now, I don't want to
Under New Jersey Court Rule 5:3-7(b), whenever a party fails to pay child support or alimony, the court can proceed by:
(1) fixing the amount of arrearages and entering a judgment upon which interest accrues;
(2) requiring payment of arrearages on a periodic basis;
(3) suspension of an occupational license or driver's license consistent with law;
(4) economic sanctions;
(5) participation by the party in violation of the order in an approved community service program;
(6) incarceration, with or without work release;
(7) issuance of a warrant to be executed upon the further violation of the judgment or order; and
(8) any other appropriate equitable remedy.
A family can help you prepare the appropriate motion, using these various provisions above, in order to assist you in collecting arrears. It may not be a fast process, if he has no tangible assets, but you should develop a plan of action with your attorney -- and stick to it.
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Mark S. Guralnick, Esq.
Your being kind to him is doing NOTHING for your children. Alimony and child support are two very different issues. The ONLY and I mean ONLY way you will ever get a dime from your ex is to file a motion to enforce litigants rights and include a petition to have the ex incarcerated. If you cannot afford a lawyer, get pro se papers from family court. If you can afford a lawyer, use the attorney to prepare you properly for confronting the ex while in court.
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I just wanted to add my two cents-even though there are no more "points" available for answers. If you did not do so originally, you can ask Probation to collect the outstanding child support, in conjunction with the other remedies outlined above. Probation has the ability to intercept tax refunds, and can set up wage garnishments directly with employers; among other enforcement techniques.
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You should not allow that amount of arrears to remain uncollected so you need to ask a judge to do so. Alimony is for a different purpose than child support, though.
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