Is this illegal: my foster parents have always been extremely controlling and mean. I know it could be worse, so I deal with it. But they never let me see my friends or anyone else, ever. They won't even let me go to high school, they're making me do it online. Sometimes my friends come by and want me to hang out with them though. The other day my foster parents said I could, but after about 30 minutes they said they were calling the cops on me for leaving and that I was going to be arrested. I wasn't doing anything wrong or illegal, I was just out eating dinner with a friend. Could they really have me arrested for that? Theyve said before that they would lie to the cops and say I hit them or things like that, but I never have because I know what would happen. Im about to be 18 in a few weeks if it matters
Theodore's answer: Wait it out and be done with them once your an adult (18). If they actually abuse you, get out and call the police. Find a good counselor to help you with any damage you have from your childhood. You should report them to DCF and maybe protect another foster child from going through something like this. Sorry you had this experience.
Unwed mother in FL seeking to relocate to MI: I have an 8 year old son. His father and I were never married and do not currently live together. We have no formal custody arrangment nor does he pay child support. I have the opportunity to live with a family member in MI rent free so that I can go back to school and be able to better provide for my child. Am I free to relocate?
Theodore's answer: Unless there is an order or final judgment addressing a parenting plan or timesharing, or there is a proceeding to determine same, you are free to go.
Is my marriage valid?: I got married to a 24 year old guy when i was 18. Our relationship lasts for 8 years and we had 3 kids. However, one time I saw a TV show and I learned that couples who's planning to get married needs to get a marriage license. As I can remember we don't even have one, we just go there proceed with the ceremony an signed the contract. Is it considered a valid marriage?
Theodore's answer: If you were "married" in Florida without a license, you do not have a valid marriage. See Florida Statute 741.08.