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I have been practicing law for over 22 years and I love helping families at a time of crisis.  I started Non Hostile Family Law because I hated traditional family law where people had to go to Court and have an ugly battle.  In my opinion, everyone loses in that case especially the children.  I normally have clients divorced in 2 to 3 months and it gives me great satisfaction to see people 6 months or 1 year down the road and they are so happy and even friends with their former spouse.  The kids are thriving and people have gone on with their lives without complete devastation.  I do meet with both Husband and Wife in the intial consultation to explain the process if they both want to come in to see me.  I only represent one of the parties in the divorce and I encourage the other party to at least get an independent attorney consultation when we get to the divorce judgment stage.  I believe that the divorce should be fair and equitable for everyone.  I charge a flat fee and that helps clients know exactly what the divorce will cost up front.  I work with people if they need a payment plan.  I truly enjoy the work that I do because I am helping people in a time of crisis.  I pride myself on building people up as opposed to destroying families. 


Practice areas


  1. Divorce: 100%
    24 years



Fixed (always)

Payment types:

Cash, Check

Attorney endorsements

6 total 

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  • Rachael M Roberts

    I would endorse Lillian Quinn. She is a compassionate attorney who works hard for all of her clients. She puts her heart into every case and helps guide clients with a friendly and caring demeanor. She is a great mediator as well and is very successful at reaching amicable and equitable resolutions.


    Rachael Roberts Estate Planning Attorney
    Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community

  • Kathleen Heather Paukert

    I endorse this lawyer. Lillian is a trail blazer for handling divorces in a non hostile manner. As Lillian says, "divorce is not the end of the family, it is the reorganization of the family." So agree to disagree and hire Lillian who will handle your matter in a non hostile manner.


    Kathleen Paukert Personal Injury Attorney
    Relationship: Family member

Contact info

Non Hostile Family Law

45 NW Park Place
Bend, OR, 97701


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Work experience
TitleCompany nameDuration
AttorneyNon Hostile Family Law1992 - Present
Association namePosition nameDuration
Business Network InternationalMember2012 - Present
Bend Senior High School, Mock TrialTeacher/Coach2011 - Present
Deschutes County, Family Law Advisory CommitteeMember2009 - Present
Cascade Women LawyersMember2003 - Present
Deschutes County Bar AssociationMember2003 - Present
Oregon State BarMember1992 - Present
Publication nameTitleDate
Family NewsMoving out of State and How It works with Divorce2013
Family NewsWhat is a legal separation?2013
Family NewsFamily Law Can Be Scary2012
School nameMajorDegreeGraduated
Lewis & Clark Law SchoolLawJD - Juris Doctor1992
University of MontanaEnglish and TheatreBA - Bachelor of ArtsN/A
Speaking engagements
Conference nameTitleDate
Community TalksDivorce 1012014
Community TalksFamily Law Divorce and Simple Wills2013