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I take great pride in guiding families through family building and the legal process in a wise and respectful way. I am excited to offer you my extensive background in collaborative strategies combined with my 24+ years of legal experience in family law.  All of us at Adams, Romer, & Stoeckenius look forward to helping you and your family through this transformative time.


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  1. Family: 100%
    26 years, 800 cases



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  • Leslie R Bottimore

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    Leslie Bottimore Estate Planning Attorney
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  • John Joseph Burke

    I got to know Holly over the course of several years while she and I were officers and directors of Collaborative Professionals of Washington (CPW). Holly is highly committed to advancing collaborative practice for divorce. She has demonstrated to me her high levels of knowledge, energy, and commitment to excellence in collaborative practice. In addition, she is just simply one of those "very nice people" that you just cannot help but to like. In my opinion, collaborative practice should be the process of choice for many, if not most divorces, and Holly would be an excellent choice as one of the collaborative attorneys to guide a couple through the process.


    John Burke Divorce & Separation Attorney
    Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community

Contact info

Adams, Romer & Stoeckenius, LLP

829 Sonoma Ave
Santa Rosa, CA, 95404


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Work experience
TitleCompany nameDuration
Associate AttorneyCasey Gordon Davis1990 - 1996
Association namePosition nameDuration
Collaborative Professionals of WashingtonPresident-Elect/Founding Member2010 - 2011
International Academy of Collaborative Professionals InstituteFounding Committee Member2010 - Present
Eastside Collaborative Family LawCo-chair/Founding Member2009 - 2010
King County Bar Association- Collaborative Law SectionFounding Co-chair2008 - 2009
Stories of AutismFounding Board Member2008 - Present
King County Collaborative LawVice President2006 - 2009
Publication nameTitleDate
Urban LiasonCollaborative Law: Focus on the Future2010
King County Bar BulletinThe New (Decade) Lawyer2009
King County Bar BulletinThe Power of Strategic Cooperation2008
WSBA ADR Section NewsletterInviting the Dialogue2008
School nameMajorDegreeGraduated
Harvard University Law SchoolAdvanced Negotiations- Difficult ConversationsN/A2008
University of Washington School of LawN/AProfessional Mediation Skills Certificate2003
University of Washington School of LawN/AFamily Law Skills Certificate1992
Seattle University School of LawLawJD - Juris Doctor1989
McGeorge School of Law, University of the PacificLawN/A1987
University of Colorado - BoulderEnvironmental ConservationBA - Bachelor of Arts1982
Speaking engagements
Conference nameTitleDate
WSBA CLECollaborative Law2009
Annual CPW ConferenceCollaborative Law- Advanced Topics2009
Annual CPW ConferenceCollaborative Law Advanced Topics2008
Skills TrainingCollaborative Law- Intro/Advanced2007